{"id":15754,"date":"2022-12-07T10:01:43","date_gmt":"2022-12-07T09:01:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/agora.xtec.cat\/inslacetania\/?p=15754"},"modified":"2022-12-17T14:56:32","modified_gmt":"2022-12-17T13:56:32","slug":"amor-o-no-amor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/agora.xtec.cat\/inslacetania\/general\/amor-o-no-amor\/","title":{"rendered":"AMOR O NO AMOR?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Hi ha dos tipus d’amor, per una banda tenim el que de veritat s’estimen i \u00e9s tot molt bonic, i per l’altra, el que nom\u00e9s \u00e9s maltractament, i la relaci\u00f3 es torna un infern.<\/p>\n

Enamorar-se \u00e9s una experi\u00e8ncia que no es pot explicar, moltes vegades es diu que notes “papallones a l’est\u00f3mac”. Un mateix no tria de qui s’enamora. Pot ser mutu, o no. Pot ser un amor impossible o una cosa molt bonica.<\/p>\n

Com podries saber si est\u00e0s enamorat? Doncs quan est\u00e0s amb ell o ella, i hi parles, el cor s’accelera, notes un pessigolleig a l’est\u00f3mac i quan us mireu us venen somriures nerviosos. tot aix\u00f2 s\u00f3n s\u00edmptomes d’estar enamorat i il\u00b7lusionat amb la parella. La part m\u00e9s bonica de la relaci\u00f3 \u00e9s l’inici, quan comenceu a agafar confian\u00e7a, quan hi ha respecte, quan comenceu a con\u00e8ixer la seva fam\u00edlia, etc.<\/p>\n

La part dolenta de qui no sap estimar a la seva parella, s\u00f3n les mentides, la viol\u00e8ncia i el masclisme. Tamb\u00e9, existeix la viol\u00e8ncia verbal, i la relaci\u00f3 es torna un infern.<\/p>\n

Si ja li has explicat com et fa sentir quan t’insulta i ho continua fent, no hi ha gaire m\u00e9s a fer. Surt d’aquesta relaci\u00f3, no minimitzis la import\u00e0ncia dels insults, no els consideris normals perqu\u00e8 no ho s\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Hi ha molts tipus de viol\u00e8ncies en una parella, per\u00f2 crec que la m\u00e9s perillosa \u00e9s la que no t\u00e9 res a veure amb les lesions f\u00edsiques, sin\u00f3 emocionals,\u00a0 que t’humilia, i per dins et fa sentir insuficient, et treu l’ autoestima i et pots arribar a enganxar a subst\u00e0ncies per oblidar-te de tot. Pot causar dolors, ansietat\u00a0 i una forta depressi\u00f3.<\/p>\n

Hi ha gent que ha callat tant temps que s’ha arribat a su\u00efcidar. O que directament has sigut la seva parella qui l’ha morta.<\/p>\n

El tel\u00e8fon on has de trucar si pateixes viol\u00e8ncia de parella \u00e9s “016” .<\/span><\/p>\n

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Hi ha dos tipus d’amor, per una banda tenim el que de veritat s’estimen i \u00e9s tot molt bonic, i per l’altra, el que nom\u00e9s \u00e9s maltractament, i la relaci\u00f3 es torna un infern. Enamorar-se \u00e9s una experi\u00e8ncia que no es pot explicar, moltes vegades es diu que notes “papallones a l’est\u00f3mac”. 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