{"id":2311,"date":"2015-12-15T19:00:07","date_gmt":"2015-12-15T18:00:07","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/agora.xtec.cat\/ies-merce-rodoreda\/?p=2311"},"modified":"2016-04-07T22:51:02","modified_gmt":"2016-04-07T21:51:02","slug":"tercera-sessio-del-taller-somriu-son-adolescents","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/agora.xtec.cat\/ies-merce-rodoreda\/afa\/tercera-sessio-del-taller-somriu-son-adolescents\/","title":{"rendered":"Tercera sessi\u00f3 del taller: Somriu, s\u00f3n adolescents!!"},"content":{"rendered":"

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\u00a0“QUE NO ES TRENQUI LA CORDA\u201d<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

En aquesta sessi\u00f3 comencem parlant dels l\u00edmits. Els l\u00edmits s\u2019han d\u2019establir amb criteri, les rutines i els l\u00edmits els donen seguretat.<\/p>\n

Es parla de com veiem l\u2019adolesc\u00e8ncia,sovint aquesta mirada es fa des del conflicte i\u00a0 la por i no deixem que l\u2019adolescent gestioni. De vegades no ens enrecordem de parlar-li i explicar-li les coses. \u00c9s important marcar pautes i horaris, preservar que tinguin uns espais on fer les feines. Tamb\u00e9 la manera de gestionar el conflicte, quan ens enfadem i \u201cmontem el pollo\u201d perdem una oportunitat de parlar amb ells. Hem de tenir una mirada com a pares\/mares per\u00f2 tamb\u00e9 amb una mica de complicitat, no com a conflicte.<\/p>\n

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\u00c9s important l\u2019escolta activa.<\/p>\n

Alguns trucs per establir una bona relaci\u00f3 i comunicaci\u00f3:<\/strong><\/h3>\n

– Buscar el moment adequat.<\/p>\n

– Evitar jutjar a priori.<\/p>\n

– Comen\u00e7ar a practicar amb temes no conflictius.<\/p>\n

– Contextualitzar el que diu el nen amb el seu moment evolutiu.<\/p>\n

– Mirar als ulls.<\/p>\n

– Fer gestos d\u2019assentiment.<\/p>\n

– Comprovar que entenem (fer preguntes aclaridores).<\/p>\n

– Resumir amb les nostres paraules el que el nen ens explica.<\/p>\n

– Identificar el sentiment que hi ha darrere el que diu.<\/p>\n

– Evitar l\u2019exc\u00e9s: la interacci\u00f3 cont\u00ednua de l\u2019adult genera rebuig en la criatura i fa poc \u00fatil el missatge:<\/p>\n

Missatge tu, missatge jo<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Quina diferencia hi ha:<\/p>\n

Estic farta de les tev\u00e9s mentides \/ Em sento enganyat\/da<\/p>\n

Atributs que queden etiquetats, no equiparar la persona a la conducta.<\/p>\n

Acabem el taller fent una enquesta de valoraci\u00f3 per part dels assistents.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

  \u00a0“QUE NO ES TRENQUI LA CORDA\u201d En aquesta sessi\u00f3 comencem parlant dels l\u00edmits. Els l\u00edmits s\u2019han d\u2019establir amb criteri, […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":11,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[31],"tags":[260],"class_list":["post-2311","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-afa","tag-tallers-de-pares"],"post_mailing_queue_ids":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/agora.xtec.cat\/ies-merce-rodoreda\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2311","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/agora.xtec.cat\/ies-merce-rodoreda\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/agora.xtec.cat\/ies-merce-rodoreda\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/agora.xtec.cat\/ies-merce-rodoreda\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/11"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/agora.xtec.cat\/ies-merce-rodoreda\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2311"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/agora.xtec.cat\/ies-merce-rodoreda\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2311\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2314,"href":"https:\/\/agora.xtec.cat\/ies-merce-rodoreda\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2311\/revisions\/2314"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/agora.xtec.cat\/ies-merce-rodoreda\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2311"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/agora.xtec.cat\/ies-merce-rodoreda\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2311"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/agora.xtec.cat\/ies-merce-rodoreda\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2311"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}