{"id":2878,"date":"2019-01-23T21:27:08","date_gmt":"2019-01-23T20:27:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/agora.xtec.cat\/iepepacolomer\/?p=2878"},"modified":"2019-01-23T21:27:08","modified_gmt":"2019-01-23T20:27:08","slug":"avorrir-se-no-es-dolent","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/agora.xtec.cat\/iepepacolomer\/general\/avorrir-se-no-es-dolent\/","title":{"rendered":"Avorrir-se no \u00e9s dolent!"},"content":{"rendered":"<article id=\"post-1096\" class=\"post-1096 post type-post status-publish format-standard has-post-thumbnail hentry category-sin-categoria tag-creativitat tag-educacio-infantil tag-educacio-primaria tag-families\">\n<div class=\"content-post\">\n<div class=\"entry-content\">\n<p>\u00c9s for\u00e7a habitual que quan els infants es queixen que \u201cestan avorrits\u201d es generi una reacci\u00f3 immediata per part dels progenitors de buscar i proposar activitats per fer. El fet que\u00a0<strong>en la nostra cultura industrialitzada el \u201cno fer\u201d es visqui com un error,<\/strong>\u00a0unit a la pressi\u00f3 de les fam\u00edlies per donar als fills i filles una inf\u00e0ncia \u201cperfecta\u201d,<strong>\u00a0generen una combinaci\u00f3 que d\u00f3na com a resultat aquesta resposta quasi inconscient.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Frenar aquesta espiral d\u2019hiperestimulaci\u00f3 passa per<strong>\u00a0redescobrir els plaers simples de la vida, per prioritzar la qualitat a la quantitat, i per permetre que els infants s\u2019avorreixin<\/strong>. En aquest sentit \u00e9s important ensenyar els nostres fills i filles que l\u2019avorriment \u00e9s una situaci\u00f3 plena d\u2019oportunitats:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><strong>L\u2019avorriment \u00e9s el lloc de naixement de la creativitat.\u00a0<\/strong>Solucionar l\u2019avorriment dels infants \u00e9s castrar les seves pr\u00f2pies capacitats de resoluci\u00f3 de problemes i impedir que siguin sobirans del seu propi temps. Com a molt, en aquestes situacions, feu un canvi menor: obriu una finestra, reprodu\u00efu m\u00fasica, o simplement col\u00b7loqueu un llibre o puzle a la taula sense fer cap comentari.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Eviteu renyar-los quan es queixen que estan avorrits fent-los la reflexi\u00f3 sobre com els nens i nenes a l\u2019\u00c0frica no s\u2019avorreixen.\u00a0<\/strong>Aix\u00f2 nom\u00e9s crea vergonya i no poden entendre-ho.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<ol start=\"3\">\n<li><strong>No critiqueu mai a un infant per \u201cno fer res\u201d,\u00a0<\/strong>la majoria de nosaltres passarem la nostra vida adulta intentant aprendre a no fer res.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<ol start=\"4\">\n<li><strong>Quan un nen o nena est\u00e0 immers en la seva pr\u00f2pia activitat, no l\u2019interrompeu \u00a0ni comenteu res.\u00a0<\/strong>Aix\u00f2 soscava la seva capacitat d\u2019atenci\u00f3 i els redirigeix a buscar la propera entrada sensorial.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<ol start=\"5\">\n<li><strong>Planifiqueu menys.\u00a0<\/strong>Anar a un museu? Un parc? Una partida de joc? Genial! Que sigui aquesta l\u2019\u00fanica activitat programada del dia.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<ol start=\"6\">\n<li><strong>Quan aneu a un museu, o a un parc d\u2019atraccions, no hi ha cap necessitat de \u201cveure-ho tot\u201d.\u00a0<\/strong>Respecteu que el vostre fill o filla vulgui fer la foto d\u2019un dinosaure una vegada i una altra. \u00c9s important recordar-nos a nosaltres mateixos que cada activitat t\u00e9 valor i que no hem de tenir pressa per \u201cfer-ho tot\u201d.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<ol start=\"7\">\n<li><strong>Quan \u00e9s l\u2019\u00faltima vegada que els vostres fills o filles us han vist gaudint del vostre temps?\u00a0<\/strong>O d\u2019un llibre? O d\u2019una mica de meditaci\u00f3 o d\u2019escoltar m\u00fasica? Feu-ho davant d\u2019ells.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<ol start=\"8\">\n<li><strong>Permeteu que els infants estiguin sols.\u00a0<\/strong>Estar sols una estona \u00e9s un luxe que els pares i mares sovint anhelem. El que no ens adonem \u00e9s que als infants (fins i tot els m\u00e9s petits) a vegades tamb\u00e9 els agrada i els conv\u00e9. Confirmem que estaran segurs, fem-los saber que som a la vora, i permetem que el seu joc es converteixi en una manera de desenvolupar el seu propi ritme i el seus interessos.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/agora.xtec.cat\/iepepacolomer\/wp-content\/uploads\/usu1405\/2019\/01\/21.-valor-avorriment-360x210.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-2880\" src=\"https:\/\/agora.xtec.cat\/iepepacolomer\/wp-content\/uploads\/usu1405\/2019\/01\/21.-valor-avorriment-360x210.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"360\" height=\"210\" srcset=\"https:\/\/agora.xtec.cat\/iepepacolomer\/wp-content\/uploads\/usu1405\/2019\/01\/21.-valor-avorriment-360x210.jpg 360w, https:\/\/agora.xtec.cat\/iepepacolomer\/wp-content\/uploads\/usu1405\/2019\/01\/21.-valor-avorriment-360x210-300x175.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 360px) 100vw, 360px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Tenim una\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/edubarometre.cat\/eines_per_educar\/el-valor-de-lavorriment\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">infografia de resum<\/a>\u00a0que esperem que t\u2019agradi!<\/p>\n<p>Font:\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/faros.hsjdbcn.org\/ca\/articulo\/slow-parenting-valor-lavorriment\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><em>Slow parenting\u00a0<\/em>i el valor de l\u2019avorriment-Faros<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"entry-author\">\n<div class=\"author__img\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"author__description\">\n<p class=\"author__name\">Sergi Ricart<\/p>\n<p class=\"author__name\">Polit\u00f2leg<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/article>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00c9s for\u00e7a habitual que quan els infants es queixen que \u201cestan avorrits\u201d es generi una reacci\u00f3 immediata per part dels progenitors de buscar i proposar activitats per 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