{"id":5460,"date":"2020-02-11T09:00:35","date_gmt":"2020-02-11T08:00:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/agora.xtec.cat\/ceipcanigo\/?p=5460"},"modified":"2020-07-07T12:27:58","modified_gmt":"2020-07-07T10:27:58","slug":"no-hi-ha-formules-magiques","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/agora.xtec.cat\/ceipcanigo\/general\/no-hi-ha-formules-magiques\/","title":{"rendered":"No hi ha f\u00f3rmules m\u00e0giques"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00a0El passat mes de gener va tenir lloc la reuni\u00f3 pedag\u00f2gica amb les fam\u00edlies de P3 i, durant aquesta trobada, vam parlar, entre d\u2019altres temes, sobre una frase que diu aix\u00ed \u201cNo hi ha f\u00f3rmules m\u00e0giques ni veritats absolutes;\u00a0 cada moment requereix una intervenci\u00f3 concreta i diferent, segons la situaci\u00f3”. Davant d\u2019aquesta frase van sorgir inquietuds al voltant de com eduquem a la mateixa reuni\u00f3 i a les valoracions que es van fer d\u2019aquesta reuni\u00f3.<\/span> Hem elaborat aquest article per reflexionar sobre l\u00edmits, conseq\u00fc\u00e8ncies i frustracions.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0La nostra responsabilitat com a acompanyants, educadores, fam\u00edlies, mestres\u2026\u00a0 \u00e9s atendre les necessitats dels infants dins els l\u00edmits que ens proporcionen seguretat i respecte. I aquesta \u00e9s una premissa que guia la nostra tasca d\u2019educar. Quan plantegem algun l\u00edmit com a comunitat ens preguntem el motiu d\u2019aquest l\u00edmit per\u00f2 … com ho podem fer? El llibre de l\u2019Alba Castellv\u00ed \u201cEducar sin gritar\u201d ens fa unes recomanacions que trobem molt encertades i que il\u00b7lustra amb exemples per a educar en la responsabilitat.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0D\u2019una banda haur\u00edem de tenir clar que educar en\u00a0 la llibertat no vol dir la satisfacci\u00f3 de tots els desitjos. D\u2019altra banda hem de donar al nen o la nena diferents possibilitats d\u2019actuar. I, finalment, quan decideixi com actuar, assumeixi les conseq\u00fc\u00e8ncies.<\/span><\/p>\n

Com han de ser aquestes conseq\u00fc\u00e8ncies?<\/b><\/p>\n

\u00a0\u00c9s molt important que tinguin a veure amb all\u00f2 que ha passat \u00e9s a dir, per exemple, que si pint\u00e9s la paret, l\u2019hauria de netejar i, per tant, durant aquest temps no podria jugar. Tamb\u00e9 \u00e9s imprescindible que les conseq\u00fc\u00e8ncies siguin properes en el temps i no donar moltes explicacions, sin\u00f3 un \u00fanic argument.<\/span><\/p>\n

Com fem acomplir les ordres que els hi donem?<\/b><\/p>\n

\u00a0Hem de fer acomplir totes les ordres que donem als nostres infants. Per tant, hem de prioritzar aquells aspectes que, com d\u00e8iem al comen\u00e7ament de l\u2019article, ens sembla que proporcionen seguretat i respecte per ell\/a mateix aix\u00ed com pels altres.\u00a0 D\u2019altra banda, ens hem d\u2019anticipar i donar les instruccions en positiu, aix\u00ed com mostrant-nos comprensius sense cedir.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0Quan donem una ordre ho hem de fer amb frases senzilles i curtes, a l\u2019al\u00e7ada de l\u2019infant, mirant-li directament als ulls, sense crits per\u00f2 firmament i sense esperar resposta. \u00c9s a dir, sense formular-la com una pregunta.<\/span><\/p>\n

Les frustracions davant els l\u00edmits<\/b><\/p>\n

\u00a0A vegades associem insatisfacci\u00f3 amb infelicitat i \u00e9s molt important poder dir no ja que educa l\u2019autocontrol i el tenir en compte als altres. Davant la frustraci\u00f3 podem entendre l\u2019emoci\u00f3 de r\u00e0bia que li pot generar\u00a0 a l\u2019infant i dir-li, per\u00f2 mai cedir davant el l\u00edmit ja que, si ho fem, refor\u00e7arem l\u2019expressi\u00f3 d\u2019aquesta frustraci\u00f3 en seg\u00fcents situacions.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0Esperem haver ajudat a resoldre alguns dubtes que, segurament, hauran generat d\u2019altres. I \u00e9s que, com ja sabem, educant no hi ha f\u00f3rmules m\u00e0giques.<\/span><\/p>\n

Podeu veure les fotos clicant AQU\u00cd<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

La nostra responsabilitat com a acompanyants, educadores, fam\u00edlies, mestres\u2026 \u00e9s atendre les necessitats dels infants dins els l\u00edmits que ens proporcionen seguretat i respecte. I aquesta \u00e9s una premissa que guia la nostra tasca d\u2019educar.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":7,"featured_media":5461,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_bbp_topic_count":0,"_bbp_reply_count":0,"_bbp_total_topic_count":0,"_bbp_total_reply_count":0,"_bbp_voice_count":0,"_bbp_anonymous_reply_count":0,"_bbp_topic_count_hidden":0,"_bbp_reply_count_hidden":0,"_bbp_forum_subforum_count":0,"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5460","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-general"],"post_mailing_queue_ids":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/agora.xtec.cat\/ceipcanigo\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5460","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/agora.xtec.cat\/ceipcanigo\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/agora.xtec.cat\/ceipcanigo\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/agora.xtec.cat\/ceipcanigo\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/7"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/agora.xtec.cat\/ceipcanigo\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5460"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/agora.xtec.cat\/ceipcanigo\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5460\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5462,"href":"https:\/\/agora.xtec.cat\/ceipcanigo\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5460\/revisions\/5462"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/agora.xtec.cat\/ceipcanigo\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5461"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/agora.xtec.cat\/ceipcanigo\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5460"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/agora.xtec.cat\/ceipcanigo\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5460"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/agora.xtec.cat\/ceipcanigo\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5460"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}